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Marcia J. Weber

Marcia J. Weber

Marcia J. Weber, age 74 of Durand, died Tuesday, January 5, 2021 at Sacred Heart Hospital in Eau Claire.

Marcia was born on September 13, 1946 in Durand. She was the daughter of G.F. “Sam” and Ethel V. (Mulheron) Bauer. Marcia grew up in Durand and graduated from Durand High School in 1964. She married Larry Weber on October 3, 1964 at St. Mary’s Assumption Catholic Church. Marcia and Larry lived in Durand, where they raised their eight children. Marcia was active in the church and community.  Marcia enjoyed family gatherings, golf, and watching her grandchildren participate in music and sports.  She was a master at Trivial Pursuit, card games, and enjoyed visits from family and friends.   Marcia often repeated her mother’s quote: “I am not lucky, I am blessed”. 

Marcia is survived by her husband of 56 years; Larry, children; Terri (Mike) DeMatteo, Todd (Amy) Weber, Trudi (Jody) Lane, Jenny (Jeff) Tulip, Joe (Jen) Weber, Jessi (Matt) Annis, all of Durand, Mark (Crystal) Weber of Oregon, WI and Mike (Sarah) Weber of Durand, 22 grandchildren; Matt (Evelyn), Ryan (Molly), Charlie, Savannah, Jake, Sarah, Ben, Corey (Sam), Rachel, Christopher (Miranda), Cody, TJ, Zachary, Brady, Luke, Isaac, Emily, Josh, Sydney, Grace, Audrey and Caroline two great grandchildren; Troy and Sophia, three sisters; Mary Jane (Butch) Brantner, Julie (Tim) Hoffman and Jan (Steve) Spindler, all of Durand, two brothers; Jerry (Sue) Bauer and James (Linda) Bauer, both of Durand, one sister-in-law; Karen (Ron) Spaeth, three brothers-in-law; Jack (Jane) Weber, Tim (Diane) Weber and Dave Gapinski, many nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends.

She is preceded in death by her parents, son-in-law; Troy Seffinga, two sisters; Marla Fedie and Myrna Gapinski, mother-in-law; Ruth Weber and sister-in-law; Norma Irish.

Public visitation will be from 12:00PM -1:30PM Tuesday, January 12, 2021 at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Durand, followed by a private funeral mass.

Rhiel Funeral Home & Cremation Services, Durand, is serving the family.


  1. Jackie Buchholtz Pederson

    Our paths may not have crossed frequently since high school but when they did, Marcia was always as sweet and gracious was ever. Larry you married an angel on earth and I'm sure and your family will miss her dearly. May God provide you comfort knowing she is still watching over you.

  2. Sandy Drier

    So sorry to hear of your loss. Marcia was a very kind and beautiful lady. Many thoughts are with you and your families.

  3. Charlie Tiffany

    Sorry for your loss. My sympathy to the family.

  4. Rita Kepple

    Sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you during this difficult time.

  5. Barry & Dawn Terpstra

    We are so very sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers to your family.

  6. Jim and Mary Wayne

    So sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy to you and the family.

  7. Heather Weissinger

    So sorry for your loss. Marcia was such a sweet lady and will be missed by so many. Hoping all the wonderful memories will give you some comfort in the days ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

  8. Dan Callan

    May Marcia RIP.......prayers sent to both the Weber and Bauer families in this time of sorrow!

  9. Bob & Dee Dee [King] Schutz

    So sorry to hear of your loss. My it help to know others are sending you sympathy and many Prayers for strength, comfort and peace. God be with you Roy and Family.

  10. Richard and Ruth Doughty

    Our thoughts and prayers are with the Weber family. Marcia will missed by many.

  11. Denise Fetzer

    I am just reading this and my heart is saddened. What a beautiful woman who showed such grace and carried herself so well! Larry and family, you have my deepest sympathy. What a great legacy you and Marcia created together, Larry. Her death will leave an empty spot, but feel blessed in knowing she is with the Lord and at peace.

  12. Steve & Wendy Schofield

    So sorry to hear about your loss.
    Wendy and I have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

  13. Kelley & Miah (Homstad) Armour

    Dear Larry and Weber family: We send you our deepest sympathy and prayers for Marcia and your family at this difficult time.

  14. Pat Rosenberg

    She is not gone. Marcia is in everything around us and in all the special memories. God and heaven have claimed her till we meet again. A very blessed woman.

  15. Richard and Janine Endl

    Our deepest sympathies go out to Larry and family, also to all of your extended families. Please know you are in our prayers.

  16. Ardys McNaughton Dunn

    Such a gentle, kind, loving woman, Marcia has added grace to the world, and will be missed immensely. I am so sorry for the family and wish you peace.

  17. Shane, Misty Crowley & Carole Peterson

    Our thoughts and prayers to the Weber family. Marcia was a wonderful lady who will be missed by all.

  18. Dennis & Cheryl Sievwright

    Larry , you & your family will be in my thoughts . Wishing you comfort & piece in the days ahead. Our deepest sympathies to you & your family.
    Denny & Cheryl Sievwright

  19. Kathy and Steve Dahl

    Our deepest sympathies to Larry, children, grandchildren and Bauer and Weber families. What a wonderful woman and she was so friendly and giving to family and community. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

  20. Dennis sievwright

    Our deepest sympathies for the whole family many prayers love Donna and Dennis sievwright ????

  21. Arlene Forster

    So sorry to learn of Marcia's passing. We have known Marcia and Larry since before they were married. Marcia was a sweet dignified person who was a great friend, daughter, mother, sister and wife. Larry thought he was boss, but with the aforementioned dignity delivered with a beautiful smile, she really had the attention of anyone who knew her. She will be greatly missed.

    Dennis and Arlene Forster

  22. Fred Bauer

    Marsha and I were friends and cousins growing up back in the 50's and this is a big hit with an apparent necessary void to fill. She left us early. I see her life has been the epitome of what a mother really exemplifies. Humility hers and our greatest virtue. Big shoes to fill, she was old school and only one mold was made.
    In God we trust to bless her, and all the familiy she left in her wake????

  23. Fr. Paul Bosco

    Marcia Weber! You are missed truly in our life. I feel God of Love wants you to be Heaven. Go safely and wait for us. I am sure one day we will see you. Your Spiritual life, encouragement, kindness, is great. I pray that the Lord give you strength to the family to accept this. God be with you all. Praying for you.

  24. Bob and Lori Krings

    Our sincere sympathy and condolences in the loss of Marcia. She was such a kind and caring person. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

  25. Bob and Mary Zika

    Our heartfelt sympathy to the Weber and Bauer families...Our thoughts and prayers are with you!

  26. Joe and Sheila Cebe

    Our deepest sympathy to all of Marcia's family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May she rest in Gods hands.

  27. pete and Delores Schwartz

    Our hearts go out to Larry and family and to all the Bauer family. We share your grief. May all your wonderful memories of Marcia bring you some comfort to help get through this difficult time. With love and friendship we offer our deepest sympathy.

  28. Karl and Milly Goethel

    Our deepest sympathies to Marcia’s family. So sorry to hear the news. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. RIP Marcia.

  29. Paul and Sue Hoch

    Marcia and her family are in our thoughts and prayers.

  30. Janet Bauer Simpson

    I just saw where Marcia had passed away. I am so sorry to hear of your loss and send my condolences to Larry and the rest of the family. I knew Marcia as a kid in Durand and she and Larry were a year behind me in school. May God bless you and may she RIP.

  31. Christine

    My sympathies and prayers to Marcia’s family. God’s love and comfort be with you all.

  32. Rick & Estella Bauer

    Our deepest sympathy to you and family.
    Rick & Estella Bauer

  33. Deb Case

    We are sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers are with you!

  34. Jack and Carole Komro

    To Larry and family,You have our sincere sympathy on Marcia"s death.God must be gathering his angels,She will be missed especially by her family and community,Love and prayers.

  35. Greg & Roxie Glaus

    Our deepest sympathy to all of the Weber and Bauer families. Marcia will always be remembered for her beauty, grace and warmth. Her kindness is incredibly instilled in each and everyone of her children. May God hold all of you close, comfort you gently, and carry you through this sad and difficult time.

  36. Gerald Rippley

    Our deepest sympathy to Marcia's family from Deanna and Gerry Rippley's family.

  37. Msgr. Jeff Burrill

    Prayers for you Larry and to all of Marcia's family! She was such a wonderful person! May our faith in the Risen Lord give you some comfort during this very difficult time.

    Sincerely in Christ,

    Msgr. Jeff


    Sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers !

  39. Dana Radle

    Our hearts are heavy in hearing of Marcia’s unexpected passing and the pain within your families at this time. She was the best of people and Heaven has gained another glorious angel. You are all in our thoughts & prayers.
    Chris, Dana, Maisie, Riley & Josie Radle

  40. Jane (Adler) & Greg Corning

    Weber family, we are so sorry for your loss. Marcia was always ready with a warm smile and hello. May your memories sustain you during dark days. Grateful to have known her.

  41. Donna Karshbaum

    I am so Sorry for Your Loss, Marcia was a Beautiful Lady, God Bless You All!❤️

  42. Jerry & Connie Harmon

    Larry and the Weber and Bauer family - Jerry and I were deeply saddened on learning of Marcia's untimely death. Whenever we saw her she always took time to say hello and ask how everyone was. She was a very special person and heaven is blessed with her now.

  43. The Castlebergs

    Our deepest sympathy to all the family.

  44. Carol Hunter

    My deepest sympathies go out to all of your families. Such a wonderful lady,such a terrible loss. Prayers to all of you. May the love and support of each other get you thru this.

  45. Dick and Kaye Norrish

    So sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

  46. Bill Clouse

    Larry and family
    What a great loss to your family and the community. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything you need, you just have to ask.

  47. Don and Jane Rahman

    Our sympathies to the Weber family ! Marsha and Larry were/are great parents and community leaders! Durand has been blessed to have their family as residents!

  48. John G Bauer

    Very sorry to hear about the passing of Marcia. I still remember her and Larry carpooling and attending the games when Todd and I were playing together at St. Mary's and then DHS. It was obvious she was a loving wife and mother, and I am sure she will be missed dearly.

    May Marcia rest in peace, and may memories of her be cherished forever. All the best to her family and friends!

    John G Bauer
    DHS Class of 1985

  49. Mary Lansing

    Marcia brought a lot of good into this world.
    I don't feel lucky to have known her, I feel blessed.
    Peace be with the family.

  50. Roger & Alice Bauer

    Larry, children & family,
    All Durand is mourning and saddened by Marcia's passing. Marcia had a special friendliness that was genuine. Truly missed by all that knew her.
    Alice & Roger Bauer

  51. Arlene (Radle) Pittman

    My deepest sympathy Larry and family on Marshas passing ???????????? as we were cousins and many fine family reunion get together in our younger days at Uncle Gilbert and Aunt Ethels lake home in Menominee for grandma Bauer’s birthdays????????????

  52. Hailey Richardson & CJ Schade

    CJ and I are sending big hugs to Marcia's wonderful family. I always enjoyed talking with her and seeing her at the Weber family gatherings that I often joined! Keeping you all close to my heart. You all now have an amazing guardian angel that isn't going to miss a thing. Love you all!

  53. Kelly Silberhorn

    So sorry to hear of your loss, She was a special lady!

  54. Don and Val Hayden

    Deepest sympathies to the Weber and Bauer families. Marsha was a special lady and will be missed.

  55. Jane Foos

    So sorry to hear about Marcia’s passing. Our sincere sympathy to Marcia’s family both immediate and extended.
    Mark and Jane Foos

  56. Dave Bauer

    We are so sorry to hear about Marcia. The Weber and Bauer families have our Sympathy! Let God guide you through this hard time. She will always be remembered.
    Pat and Dave Bauer

  57. Jim Seipel

    I am saddened by Marcia’s passing. Seeing this does bring back such fond memories of knowing all your extended family.


  58. Tom & Mary Jean Schiefelbein

    To Larry and family: Tom and I were so sorry to hear about Marcia..Marcia was such a lovely person and a good friend..Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time..God Bless you all..Tom and Mary Jean Schiefelbein

  59. John and Chris Staub

    Our thoughts are with you.

  60. Rob & Pam Fedie and Family

    Wonderful kind person. So sorry for your loss. Our sincere sympathy to Larry and all the family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

    Rob, Pam, Dylan, Alexandria, and Ethan

  61. Keith and Donna Jones

    Our deep sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.....she was such a special lady! I will always remember her smile and willingness to help me in teaching first graders. May your Faith and memories be sources of comfort in your loss.

  62. Mark Berginski

    My thoughts and prayers are with all of the family members and friends through this difficult time ????????

  63. Roger Baier

    Super Lady, hugs and prayers to the family.

  64. Doug & Donna Gruber

    Our deepest condolences to both the Weber and Bauer families. We are so sorry for your loss, prayers for all.

  65. Terry

    Our deepest sympathy.

    Terry "Junebug", Kate, and Lawson Hartung

  66. Linda Brown

    Trudi, I'm sorry for the loss of your mother and may the hope of heaven give you peace, and the tender touch of God bring you comfort. I'm praying for you and your family.

  67. Rod & Tracy Rosemeyer

    Sending our condolences and keeping the family in our prayers.

  68. John Krumpotich

    It is with the greatest sadness that Deidre and I learn of Marcia's passing. Marcia's broad smile brought a bright light to all of her friends in Southwest Florida. We join all of the Weber family in what we know is a great loss to all of you.

  69. Paula Smith

    TO the Webers "im am truley sorry for the loss of your mother and grandmother and to what she ment to all of you she was a very nice person and i hope the memorys you have of her last forever and ill keep you all in my thoughts and prayers Paula Smith

  70. Terry & Sharie Weisenbeck

    We are saddened to hear of the loss of Marcia. She was a very kind and friendly person and will be greatly missed by the community. Sincere sympathy to Larry and the whole family. Keeping you all in our prayers.

  71. June Baker

    Jan and family, so sorry for your loss. Prayers to all.

  72. Allison Coelho

    Sending my condolences to her wonderful family. She was one of those people who you felt lucky to even know. She is already (and will continue to be) greatly missed.

  73. Joe and Christi Lieffring

    a total shock, she was one of the kindest,sweetest lady I have ever known. She always had a smile for you , she will be missed. Our deepest sympathy to you Larry and your family. May God help you thru this very difficult time.

  74. Ken and Jan Kartman

    Marcia was one of the nicest, warmest, most loving people I ever knew. She was a pillar of our Woman's Club, always leading us in thoughtful, caring decisions. She was a fun, crazy member of our 6am swim "chicks." Rest in peace dear friend.

  75. Vivie and Jerry Levenske

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!! 40 years sense we first met!! We have many great memories over those years! Words can not express how we feel !! Love Viv and Jer

  76. Roxanne Caulder

    As you grieve the passing of your mother, know that you have many people who care about you and who want to help you in any way that we can. Our deepest condolences to you and your family. Your mother will be dearly missed by many, and we are holding all of you in our thoughts and prayers.

  77. Tonja Binkowski

    We were so very sorry to hear of Marcia's passing. Our deepest sympathy to the entire family.
    Bob and Tonja Binkowski

  78. Sue and Jerry Schade

    Jerry and I are thinking of your entire family. We are so sorry for your loss. Marcia was an amazing person who was kind to everyone. She will be missed. Take care of each other. Sending hugs and prayers.

  79. Lawrence and Rita Gruber

    Larry and all members Marcia's family are sincere
    sorrow for the loss of your wife and mother. We will miss her smile and friendship. Prayers.

  80. Vicki & Mike Weiss

    Mike and I are so sorry to hear of Marcia’s passing. We are blessed to have known her and the entire Weber and Bauer families. Our prayers will be with you during this time.

  81. Fred Ohlrogge

    So sorry Larry and family. I will send you a book that I received when Dee died that gave me great help. I will write then. Thoughts and prayers to you. The lord walks with you. God bless Fred


    You will be in my thoughts and prayers

  83. Rob and Audrey (Fedie) Jaenke

    So sorry to learn of your family’s loss. She will live on in your heart and in your memories. Thinking of you all at this time.

  84. Karen Anderson Van Doorne

    So many memories, so much I feel tonight about Marcias passing. I send my love and prayers for comfort to Bauers and Webers. Her smile, grace and her laugh will always remain in my heart as we celebrate her life and grieve her loss.

  85. Tonja Binkowski

    Marcia was such a sweet lady. We are so very sorry to hear of her passing. Sending hugs and prayers.
    Bob and Tonja Binkowski

  86. Barbara Meixner

    So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers being sent to the Weber and Bauer familys.

  87. Mary Beth Berger

    Trudi, I am so very sorry for the loss of your mother. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

  88. Valerene Cataract

    I am so saddened by the news of her passing. She was a very nice lady, my sympathies to all her family.

  89. Jane Flesher

    Marcia was simply the kindest, most humble individual around. I am deeply saddened by her passing and send my thoughts and prayers to Larry and her entire family.

  90. Jenna Lovely

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Love and blessings to you and your entire family, Trudi. My deepest prayers and sympathy.

  91. John and Beth Bauer

    All of you will be in our thoughts and prayers. May your memories comfort you during this difficult time.

  92. Amanda and Paul Glaus

    We are heartbroken to hear of Marcia's passing. Although we didn't know Marcia well, we know many of her family members and what a beautiful family, immediate and extended, she has. We are thinking of and praying for all of you at this most difficult time. May the memories of Marcia offer some peace to you all.

  93. Tom Wargowsky

    My sincere condolences to Larry and family. Marcia was a wonderful mother, grandmother and wife. Her life was remarkable, I am sure the gates of heaven were open wide as she was welcomed by her God and Savior.
    Tom and Karen Wargowsky

  94. Jean Gardner

    Condolences to her whole family and many friends. She was always a kind and loving person. Was shocked and tearful when this came up. Love and prayers to all. May Marcia RIP!

  95. Judi & Gary Bauer

    Our deepest sympathy to you Larry and your family. Marcia always had a smile and a hello anytime I ran into her. Also my sympathy to her siblings, The Bauer Family. You will have all your memories. Keeping you all in our prayers during this difficult time.

  96. Teresa Schultz

    Such sad news! Marcia was a beautiful person taken way to soon. My heart goes out to Larry and all of the family. Keeping you in my prayers ????

  97. Bill & Tatia Hurlburt

    Our condolences to the entire family! May your memories of Marcia fill your heart and ease some of the pain. She was loved and respected by all who had the blessing of knowing her!

  98. Kristopher P Kurth

    My sincere condolences go out to Larry and the entire family and extended family. My mom, Pat Petrie (Pat Kurth), just notified me yesterday. It definitely shook me up when she told me. She was such a very kind lady and a pillar in the community as well...just like her children have done. I was quite close to several of the younger children of Marcia's when I was young growing up in Durand. I was friends with Mike and Mark and looked up to Jessi and Joe growing up as a kid...and even looked up to Todd and the older sisters as well...even though they were a bit older than me. I'm terribly sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to, Larry, and each and everyone of you in the family. Durand will surely miss such a wonderful woman and pillar of the community. May God bless her and each and every one of you.

    Kristopher (Kris) Kurth
    Edina, MN

  99. John And judy parr

    Hugs to all a wonderful person

  100. Jim & Barb Henry

    Our sincere condolences to the entire Weber Family. Marcia was a wonderful lady who always had a warm smile and a kind word. May the many fond memories you hold help ease your pain during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

  101. Sue L

    What sad news to start off 2021. May her memories carry you through this heartbreak and for the days to come. The entire community is touched by her passing.

  102. Joe and Jan Drier

    So very sorry for your loss! Sending our Deepest Condolences to the entire Weber and Bauer Families!!

  103. Ed and Vicky Biederman

    Larry and family, We are so sorry to hear the sad news about Marcia. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

  104. Pete, Terri, and Adler family

    Our sincere condolences to the entire Weber and Bauer family. Our hearts break for all of you, with this terrible loss. Marcia was one of the kindest people I know, and always treated me as family, and will never be forgotten. Marcia will be deeply missed by anyone who was lucky enough to know her. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.???? The Adler’s

  105. Dawn Schoeder

    So sorry for your loss! Sending thoughts and prayers to all!

  106. Randy & Audrey Richardson

    So sorry to hear of your loss. Marcia was such a wonderful person. Our sincere sympathy and prayers to the family.

  107. Ann Forster Franson

    Thoughts and prayers to the entire family - so VERY sorry for you loss.

  108. Dick and Jan Bates

    So very sad to hear about this. A sad time for our community! Marcia was such very special lady! You are all in our hearts and prayers! Dick and Jan Bates

  109. Liz Gifford Jensen

    We were so sorry to hear of Marcia's passing. What a beautiful family and legacy she has given the world. Keeping you all in our hearts and prayers--Liz & Jack Jensen

  110. Roger and Pat Claflin

    Larry and Family~. We are so sorry to hear of Marcia’s passing. Marcia was a beautiful person who treated everyone with love and respect. The world will miss her, Heaven has gained a Beautiful Angel ????

  111. Jeff schroeder

    So very sorry for your loss ! Marcia was a fabulous lady! Thoughts and prayers go out to your families

  112. Elizabeth Fagerland

    My heart is heavy for your family! Hugs!

  113. Tim & Barb Heffernan

    We are so very saddened to hear of Marcia’s passing. She will be missed by not only her family and friends, but by the whole community. Sending prayers to you all!

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