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Brenda Lee DeLong

Brenda Lee DeLong

Brenda Lee DeLong, 56, of Elk Mound, Wisconsin passed away peacefully on Friday December 12, 2025, at the Mayo Clinic hospital in Rochester Minnesota fighting Acute Myeloid Leukemia. 

Brenda was born on September 25,1969, to Marshall and Bonnie (Weiss) Fuhrman in Baldwin. Brenda started her childhood in Spring Valley, then later moved to Elk Mound, where she later graduated high school in 1988. Brenda attended college at Chippewa Valley Technical College and graduated with an accounting degree. While she was attending Chippewa Valley Technical College she met the love of her life Wade DeLong. She later married Wade DeLong on August 8th,1992 at Saint Mary’s Catholic Church in Durand. The newlyweds spent their first 2 years in Menomonie and later moved to Elk Mound. 

Brenda and Wade had their first child Jordon DeLong on February 16th, 1996, and a few years later gave birth to Erin DeLong on August 7th, 2000. Brenda was a dedicated Walmart Employee for 32 years. She worked at Walmart in Menomonie for many years, Walmart in Eau Claire for a few years and finished her career at the Walmart in Lake Hallie. Brenda Brought light, love and joy to everyone fortunate enough to know her. Brenda had an infectious personality and kindness that made everyone around her feel welcomed and valued. Brenda loved to be with her friends and family, playing games and talking. Brenda’s husband, children and grandchild were her pride and joy. When Brenda was 4 years old, she was placed in lifeguard training due to her amazing swimming skills. She enjoyed fishing with her family, shopping, long walks, concerts and taking naps with her cats. Brenda had a very strong faith in God. Brenda enjoyed holistic healing and sharing her knowledge. She loved helping people at every step of the way. 

Brenda is survived by her husband, Wade DeLong; her son, Jordon (Beth) DeLong, granddaughter, Violet DeLong; daughter, Erin DeLong; her parents, Bonnie and Marshall Fuhrman; sisters Barb (Jim) Elsenpeter and Becki Fuhrman, father-in-law Daniel DeLong, sister-in-law Becky Breezee (Dennis) along with many nieces and nephews.

Brenda is preceded in death by her mother-in-law Linda DeLong and several aunts, uncles, cousins and grandparents.

Memorial services will be held at 11:00 AM Monday December 29, 2025, at Shepard of the Hill Lutheran Church in Elk Mound.

Visitation will be held from 3:00 to 7:00 PM Sunday December 28, 2025, at Rhiel Funeral Home in Menomonie and one hour prior to services at the church on Monday.

Condolences

  1. Ron Gard

    To Wade, Jordan an Erin,
    To the best of families.
    God and peace be with you.
    Ron and Peggy Gard

  2. Wayne Lutz

    Wade and family, I am very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with all of you.

  3. Becky

    Marshall, Bonnie and all- so sorry to hear this. Prayers for all of you to find peace in her passing. Lfjxgfqo

  4. Clyde and Donna Westcott

    So very sorry to hear this news. Brenda was such a good friend. Loved visiting with her and laughing with her. Erin thinking of you and your family. You are in our prayers.

  5. Brian J Finder

    To Brenda's family and close friends, please accept our heartfelt condolences on the loss of such a vibrant and caring individual. Our first contact with Brenda and her family occurred back in 2012 with the Elk Mound Music Parents club and it wasn't long before she helped us feel right at home while working the football food stand and also providing water to our offspring during public marching band activities. While Brenda had a definite management knack for keeping everything running just so, she also displayed a charismatic side of having fun even while were sweating bullets to get the job done. Always know that Brenda's wonderful disposition will be heavily missed. Sincerely, Brian, Kathy and Emily Finder

  6. Lisbeth Danielson

    My deepest sympathies to all the family members and friends of Brenda

  7. Mary Swenby

    My heart goes out to all of you. A kind soul has her wings. It was a privilege to know Brenda and her family. Prayers for all of you.

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